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Out of my demographic on Facebook
- 26 February, 2007
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I finally (!) joined Facebook, but here's as key sign it's not exactly my demographic: there's no way to define your relationship to someone as "married". When Rob added me as a friend, I had the option of describing our relationship as "lived together", "family" (if I wanted to describe him as a sibling or cousin -- but no, it's not that kind of marriage!) or "dated". I chose "dated", and had the opportunity to further clarify that we were "practically married" and are "still together". Now all I have to worry about are all the ladies cruising Facebook to find the kind of guy who is commitment-ready, but not legally committed....
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Comments
Mark Bell says
Under relationship status you can choose:
Am I missing something?
Rob Cottingham says
Okay, I see how you do it... but it's pretty counterintuitive.
You don't edit the entry for your friend; you edit your own profile. (This, after five minutes of hunting on my part.) You'll see a "relationship" menu, where you choose "Married", and then enter the name of your spouse. Facebook then searches for users with that name, and you select the correct one.
Why you can't do that from the friend's profile instead baffles me.
Thanks for the tip, Mark. (By the way, Mark has a really interesting slideshow on Second Life and identity – worth checking out.)
Phillip Jeffrey says
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